“Let us step out into the night and pursue that flighty temptress, adventure.”

by Mandy Weger on October 16, 2011

Somehow, after 11 months of waiting for this day, it’s here. As romantic and wonderful as moving to Spain sounded to me eleven months ago, we now face the adventure we signed up for knowing that it’s not all rainbows and butterflies. We went through hell and back to get what we wanted with this move, and we’re still fighting on a daily basis to get all of the moving parts that are involved in this kind of adventure working together. It hasn’t been easy. It hasn’t even been fun, most of the time. The only thing that pushed us forward was the ever-present thoughts of “when we get there…” and “it’ll be worth it.”

Mike and I are entering this new chapter of our lives hoping with all hopes that the risks we took to make this move will work out. We hope that the sacrifices we’ve made in our everyday lives will lead to greater opportunities for us down the road. We hope that the challenges we face will make us stronger individuals and a stronger couple.

We will arrive at our new home tomorrow afternoon, which will be the beginning of a very different year for us. We might not be able to speak with the locals and I might not be able to have the independence of a car to get myself around, but we’ll also have incredible opportunities to meet new people, immerse ourselves in a new culture, learn a new language, travel to many, many new places. This year will definitely be whatever we make of it, and knowing me and Mike, you can be sure that we’ll make an adventure out of everything.

I’m excited to garden with space I’ve never had before. I’m anxious to see if the dogs can swim or if they’ll just drink the pool’s saltwater until they puke. I can’t wait to see Mike’s face when we bring home our first cured ham leg to carve up in the kitchen. I’m looking forward to the day where I can go to the local market and ask for what I need without thinking twice about the language barrier. I’m nearly shaking with anticipation for all of the possibilities laying out before us that I haven’t even fathomed yet.

I’m also scared to leave what I have behind. Over the past three years, Mike and I have grown incredibly close to my parents, since they moved to New Jersey. They’ve been our best friends, the two people we could count on more than anyone else in our lives. They’ve been there for us when we ask advice, whether it’s financial advice, personal advice, health advice, clothing advice or what the hell to do with the groundhog we found trapped in our yard. The bond that I’ve shared as an adult with my parents has been invaluable, and I will so miss their physical presence in our lives. I am so grateful for their unconditional support as we take this huge step, though I know it’ll be hard for them too. We love you, Mom and Dad.

So, folks: here we go. I hope you’re ready to read about my adventures, mishaps, highs and lows when it comes to uprooting our lives and living in a foreign land. No matter what happens in the next year or so, Mike and I have the dogs, who will love us no matter where they are on this Earth; and we have each other, which…we feel pretty much the same as the dogs. :)

Title quote by the wonderful and prolific Albus Dumbledore.

  • Miss Funnel Cake

    Aww, it will be so amazing! And only a year?? It will go by so quickly! I’ll have to plan a visit before you leave! :)

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  • Anonymous

    I hope you have a safe trip over to Spain and I can’t wait to read about your adventures over there :)

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  • Emily

    Congratulations and good luck! I am a pretty good pen pal, in case you were thinking you need one :)

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  • http://twitter.com/halffullglasses Kristin

    Bon voyage! You’ll do great – savor every moment of it! 

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  • Debbie

    Enjoy every precious moment!  We love you!

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  • http://homesweethopkins.blogspot.com Jill

    How exciting! Have a safe trip out there and have a wonderful and amazing journey while you’re in Spain. Can’t wait to read all about it!!

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  • Victoria Annand

    I am so excited for you guys! Before you know it, you will be speaking with the locals, gardening and enjoying a brand new life. Congrats on your move and safe travels <3

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  • http://www.geekinheels.com Geek in Heels

    I hope the move goes well and that the transition to your new life will be as smooth as possible! Many congrats and the best of luck!

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  • http://twitter.com/_whatsarahsaid_ Sarah

    Oh Mandy! I am so thrilled for you and Mike! What an amazing journey you have in front of you! Safe travels to your new home and I CANNOT wait to hear from you soon! xoxo

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  • http://twitter.com/loverenovations Amanda

    I’m so incredibly excited for you and I can’t wait to hear all about your adventures. You’re going to have such an amazing time!!!

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  • http://opinionationblog.blogspot.com Grace

    I’ve lived abroad for a year+ in three different places now, so have some experience being an expat. I think you will have a great time: you really will meet all kinds of interesting people, have amazing experiences, and travel to so many great places.

    But it is also really hard  living in a foreign country. Be prepared for constant stress and culture shock (usually the longer you are there, the more you realize how strange/foreign it actually is; in wealthier countries like Spain you can get fooled at first because after all they have McDonalds etc.). The language barrier can be a huge issue at first (though since it’s Spanish you have an advantage as an English speaker).

    For me, living abroad follows this trajectory: Month 1/2: Adjustment period; super stressful (and much more  expensive than  you had planned, regardless of budget/planning level) but also very exciting; Month 2/3-5: Getting  used to the new place: you discover all  the positives and get  to know some people;  it starts  to feel  more like home and you love it!!; Month 5/6: The enchantment begins to wear off. Now you just want some peanut butter and competent customer service. The foreignness gets to you. Month 6/7: You are sick of the country and all the foreign people (whose annoying habits you are now fully aware of). This is a good time to take a trip. (Some people do not  get past this stage;  you will probably meet some of them while there.) Month 8 and onward:  you  come to terms with the foreignness and learn to appreciate the country in a more realistic way. Now it really feels like  home.

    You’ll have an  amazing adventure: just remember adventures are frequently unpleasant in the moment (even if  not in the long term)!

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    hemborgwife Reply:

    As an expat or really immigrant myself I was cracking up at your breakdown! It is very accurate and I have my mini peanut butter jar for those really shitty days!

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  • Jennrichards

    Can you write a post about getting your dogs to Spain? My husband is from Europe and I’ve always wondered/worried how we’d get our greyhound there if we ever decided to move.

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  • http://twitter.com/MintedLife Kelsey L

    Adios!!  ¡Buen viaje a España!

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  • http://notesfromthebench.wordpress.com Megan

    Safe travels!  Can’t wait to hear all about it :)

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  • Clare

    Have so much fun! Congratulations and good luck, I can’t wait to read all about your trials and tribulations!

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  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_KQMZVGRUXNAS2ACDFI234OYSRM Lisa

    I wish you both nothing but the best of luck and happiness.  I’m so excited for your adventures and look forward to following along.  Safe travels to you and the doggies! ~Sunhat

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  • Ali @ His Birdie’s Nest

    I hope you had a safe trip! :)

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  • http://fromscratchblog.wordpress.com Abby

    I hope you have a safe trip and have lots of fun and great adventures!  :)  Best of luck!

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